“And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.“
John 3:19-21 KJV
In essence what I glean from this is that we each, (YOU specifically) must be convicted and convinced on your own beliefs! It is because of this that we read and study the Bible consistently. And when we are stumped, or even if we are intrigued, that we exert more energy into our research of the answer we need. We should not be concerned where the evidence takes us, because the truth will bear where we will be forwarded. And despite our biases, we strive onward to be truthful to God and ourselves. We aren’t to take any shortcuts to get an answer…we are to do the best to our abilities that God has blessed us with in order to obtain the right and proper answer. And, yes, that includes that we should seek out some of our peers and our elders to aid us in their counsel.
The old adage comes to mind here to surround yourself with people smarter than yourself, people that make you a better person, people that push you to go beyond your limits, etc. Real friends and exceptional people are there to help and to urge you one toward higher heights in your life. Why? Because by urging you on toward those heights in your life, it raises their own standard in life to reach higher themselves. We should have that group of people surrounding us that enables them to push you on to those heights and so that you can also aid them to strive to be that better person that they need to be in order to obtain their goals, as well! It is also called TEAMWORK.
1. “If we surround ourselves with people who are successful, who are forward-moving, who are positive, who are focused on producing results, who support us, it will challenge us to be more and do more and share more. If you can surround yourself with people who will never let you settle for less than you can be, you have the greatest gift that anyone can hope for.” – Tony Robbins
2. “The quality of a person’s life is most often a direct reflection of the expectations of their peer group.” – Tony Robbins
3. “We all get what we tolerate, in ourselves and other people.” – Tony Robbins
4. “The only thing that changes our life long-term is when we raise our standards.” – Tony Robbins
5. “Whatever you do in life, surround yourself with smart people who’ll argue with you.” – John Wooden
6. “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.” – Mark Twain
7. “Surround yourself with those who only lift you higher.” – Oprah Winfrey
8. “It’s better to hang out with people better than you. Pick out associates whose behavior is better than yours and you’ll drift in that direction.” – Warren Buffett
9. “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” – Jim Rohn
10. “People inspire you, or they drain you – pick them wisely.” – Hans F. Hansen
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We can either be destined for higher heights, or we can crash and burn, YOU must ultimately make that choice! God desires us all to accomplish His will out there and if your will is to fulfill His will then you have a lot to learn and many hurdles to overcome. And the best way to accomplish that is to surround yourself with the best people possible.
There are about 200+ references to “wisdom” throughout the KJV of the Bible, 180 references to “counsel”, and 10 references to “wise counsel”. There is a purpose that there are so many references, the Bible itself is God’s manual for man to live his life according to the will of God and to live a Godly life, in general. It is also a manual for man to attain clarity as to who God is and an umbilical cord, of sort, that connects us to Him. There is much we can learn from the Bible and from God, if only we would pay attention to the written words that God has preserved for us to read! Therefore, we must ascertain for ourselves the truth and live our lives accordingly!
May God Richly Bless & Guide You, My Beloved!
MK Muphy