Some Pharisees came to Jesus, testing Him and asking, “ Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason at all?” And He answered and said, “Have you not read that He who created them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate.” They said to Him, “ Why then did Moses command to give her a certificate of divorce and send her away?” He said to them, “Because of your hardness of heart Moses permitted you to divorce your wives; but from the beginning it has not been this way. And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” ~Matthew 19:3-9 NASB
Man and woman were created to enable man to have companionship, to further society, and to complement one another. There are only two sexes in God’s eyes. A man or a woman can go into a doctor, have surgery and be transformed into the opposing sex. However, that is a facade. Just because you had a sex change operation you are still a man or woman in God’s eyes. Also, though you put on a great show that you are now of the opposing sex, your genetic make-up still shows you to be the man or woman you were born as. Sorry, Genetics do not lie. No matter what you do to your body, no matter what you think of yourself, nor how YOU personally identify yourself (or identify with) you cannot change who and what you are! Yet man continues the fight and plight to be and become like God. Beware of those who try to push God out of our lives! For there are many who desire to do so.
We each have an obligation to God, our Creator, to:
You shall teach them to your sons, talking of them when you sit in your house and when you walk along the road and when you lie down and when you rise up. ~Deuteronomy 11:19 NASB
Train up a child in the way he should go, Even when he is old he will not depart from it. ~Proverbs 22:6 NASB
The only way our children can know God is initially through us as parents. We are the first impression of God that our children will actually obtain, the snapshot that they receive from us by how we treat others, our spouses and the children, as well. Sadly, we as a nation have allowed ourselves to become so busy in paying the bills and making more money just so we can do more things, that we have forsaken God and His ways. In so doing this we have allowed others with a more liberal ungodly thought of how things should be to actually teach our children and fill them with foolhardiness and ignorance. It is truly a sad debacle this country has fallen into, also sadly that we do it so willingly.
Marriage is for man and woman. In order to create and flourish as a society, man needed both companionship and one with which would complement and create. And that was woman, because she came from man.
The Lord God fashioned into a woman the rib which He had taken from the man, and brought her to the man. The man said,
“This is now bone of my bones, And flesh of my flesh; She shall be called Woman, Because she was taken out of Man.”
For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.~Genesis 2:22-25 NASB
The original marriage of man to woman was the vow or statement by Adam to Eve. If two homosexuals (both men or women) should marry, there is no way for them to produce a child. If a transsexual man has the surgery to change to a woman and then marries a man, they cannot produce offspring [and vice versa]. And, yes, there are some husbands and wives who do marry and cannot produce offspring, but they were a complement to one another. They were man and woman, there are just some of these things that do happen.
I am certain there are those in the LGBTQP community who will not like this message, not that I think that they are listening to me. But the facts are the facts. They are only able to have children through other means of procreation because they cannot make it happen. God made us who we are for a reason, for a purpose…some of which is to carry on the society. Being fruitful and multiplying, as it were. The purpose of the LGBTQP community is simply, in my opinion, to push the normalizing agenda that homosexuality, transgenderism, and pedophilia mind is good, healthy and normal. While those who have not fallen into such an agenda and hype or the masses, know this to be immoral from God’s standpoint. Think about this for a moment…the normalizing of immoral acts, or sinfulness, is quite simply a humanistic, or atheistic, act against God which has been repeated often throughout the history of man.
Face it, if God exists and He did create us, and we are in His image…this means we were not created to dishonor or discredit God. We were made to glorify and spread His goodness and love and His word! We were called and charged to do so by Jesus, Himself. While under the auspices and authority of the New Testament, women are to subject themselves to the authority of their husbands; this does not, however, grant an authoritarian regime of men over their wives. To do so falls under the sin of pride and in essence violates God’s will for our lives as man and woman.
This natural union of man and woman is indispensable for the
common good. We couldn’t have a good society without it. The
reason why is because in order to have a flourishing human society,
you have to have new people and proper formation. And marriage
is where this all happens in the best way. This act of human sexuality
is very important. It’s not some private act that the public shouldn’t worry
about. What people do in their bedrooms has a huge effect on the common
So reason looking at nature shows us that marriage is a natural union between a man and a woman for the purposes of: 1. Procreation and
the education of children, 2. The mutual comfort of the spouses, 3. And a licit
outlet for the sexual desire. All of these purposes of marriage are good, but they are not equally good. Procreation is the principal end of marriage. The
reason why is because the continuation of the species is fundamental for human happiness.
In any civilized society, freedom is always limited by justice. No one should be given the freedom to do what harms the common good of man [as a whole], society, or the nation. Discrimination is only wrong when it is unjust. We rightly discriminate all the time. We don’t allow 12 years to buy guns and beer (discrimination based on age). We don’t allow drunks to drive (discrimination based on behavior). In order to have an unjust discrimination, someone would have to be deprived of what is rightly their due. But since same sex relations do not benefit society like traditional marriage does it does not deserve the same recognition. Same sex & transsex couples are free to do whatever they want in their private lives. This much is tolerated. But no civilized society should tolerate unjust laws and it is unjust to give same sex marriage the same legal status as traditional marriage.
May God Richly Bless You, My Beloved!
MK Murphy, PhD, DD
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