While the story, word of the Lord in the Book of Ezekiel 23, is directed at Israel…we, mankind in general, have become and are increasingly growing in to the Two Harlot Sisters. A prelude where we (America, as well as the rest of the world) have become the Whore of Babylon, Sodom and Gomorrah. We give up the word of God for our “God given rights,” we become lecherous for the immediate pleasures of the NOW, and the list of sins can go on and on! We seek something more convenient, easier, faster, and immediate instead of setting our sights on the long term goals. We are gluttons for the immediate pleasures of the world and have given up on planning for the future sustaining of our lives.
We sell ourselves for a better life, only to be miserable in the long run. During our quest for a better life, we trade our memories for money. We trade our relationships for for the hopes of reward. We trade our quality time with our children for extra time with our bosses and co-workers, in so doing we end up not teaching our kids those all-important lessons we desired them to know…yet they never find out from us. All the while as we grow away from our families, they, too, grow apart from us. Thereby, we acquiesce and abdicate our responsibilities for them and allow the unthinkable to occur. We allow them to create new relationships with others who will take president over us. Our kids learn from their friends and even worse…their heroes, of the likes of Bon Jovi, Poison, U2, Metallica, AC/DC, and the list goes on and on.
As we get older we will look back on all of these indiscretions with disdain, dismay, and much regret. I remember growing up where my father was always at work. I saw him, at very best, on the weekends…and even less when he traveled. I also remember my attitudes throughout the years and how I acted. And I remember my father and I were suppose to meet the night before I went to boot camp (and I was leaving on his birthday), which got scratched by me. Why? You may be asking, or if not I will tell you anyway. To be with my girlfriend. As I look back on many of these actions, yeah…I recall much regret. I essentially sold my self for my feelings…a form of prostitution, if you will!
Yeah, this song by Harry Chapin (“Cats In The Cradle“) always comes to mind when I think on these things:
We each do different things, but in the end we will have that sense of failure and regret. Now let us roll on into our main event…no, having you think on your regrets wast not the intent of this blog posting!
The bible tells us to live in today and be thoughtful of the now, but we are also to plan on the future, as well. But how can we balance the two ideologies?
We are desperately in need of the ability to enjoy and live in the here and now and also have a mind for our future possibilities. While we are not promised tomorrow, we should still be in tune with what would be best for us and our family.
Do not boast about tomorrow,
For you do not know what a day may bring forth. ~Proverbs 27:1 NKJV
Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city, spend a year there, buy and sell, and make a profit”; whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away. ~James 4:13-14 NKJV
Enjoy the now, live in the now, and make plans for the future as though you will live far into the future!!! Will you live that long? Who knows? Only God does! But you should plan with the hope that you glorify God and longevity would be your reward.
A good man leaves an inheritance to his children’s children,
But the wealth of the sinner is stored up for the righteous. ~Proverbs 13:22 NKJV
We each have hopes of living unto retirement, but if you think about it – retirement is but a Twentieth century concept. Retirement, here in America, came about during the first two terms of the FDR Presidency. Within the the 1930’s, more specifically in 1935 where President Franklin Delano Roosevelt signed the Social Security Act. Up until that time in our fellow American’s lives we worked until we could work no longer and stored up enough wealth on our own in order to survive our old age. Now-a-days, we are not expected to work all of our lives, our children are taught to rely on the government for their retirement pension, and most kids (today) expect to start off at the top pay scale and work their way down. Kind of like the old sitcom from the 1980’s, “Mork & Mindy” where he was an alien who was hatched as an adult and grew to youth. hmmmmmmmmm, what a concept! A little exaggerated, but not by too much!
Sadly, the fact of the matter of most of our lives is the fact that we each sell ourselves for one agenda or another. What is worse, is that we teach our children the same thing. But we can change that if we would just pay attention tow what we pass on to them. They are the future of the family, the state, the country and this world! We need to instill within them a better sense of direction! A better pattern of morals, ethics, values, ideals, logic, reason, faith, family, belonging, etc. These problems and much worse will be faced by the next generations. Why you ask? Because each generation’s political class will inevitably pass their problems on to the next generation. And unfortunately they will learn the same tricks enabling them to kick their very expensive dreams on down the road to the next generation. And at some point in time the piper will demand payment and there will be nowhere else to kick the can, the tab will have to be paid!!
Without ever realizing it, we have been taught to whore ourselves out to gain some benefit that we perceived ourselves to receive for free. Yet, it was free to you but was bought and paid by others.
I am warning you that you treat your lives, and the lives of your individual family members, with a certain modicum of dignity and respect. Remember to plan for them, each of them, in your future plans. Don’t forget to consider all aspects of your family planning. Things such as: Births, deaths, schooling, working, insurance, savings, investment, budgeting, etc. These are things we should be aware of but all too often do not think of. We tend to blow them off for the almighty dream of the big lottery win.
Until We Meet Again, Dear Brothers & Sisters in Christ!
MK Murphy, PhD, DD